People always don't realise that they have fallen too deep into something until they hit the wall. It is because they are so distracted from the big picture and have always been trying too hard for something so small of the whole thing.

It is always good to take a step back to look at the big picture and actually see that what you have been trying so hard for, is actually a chip off the iceberg. Of course, that doesn't mean we should not put in effort to do things, as a matter of fact, if things matter, it would be natural for people to put in their very best, so that you would not regret not putting in enough effort should you fail to succeed.

Take things slowly, a step at a time, nobody is rushing anyone. If things are really meant this way, no matter how you change it will still end up this way, process would change but you will still get the same results. But people always neglect the process, the way you do and achieve results. The experience gain is what the makes people grow.

Experience the beauty of the process, enjoy it, don't mind the results since you can't really change them. Irregardless of sadness or joy, just make sure that at least when you turn back in future to look into what you have been through, a smile can be seen hanging on your face and that you have no regrets. So that you can tell yourself, if I were given the same chance to do this again, I'll do it the same way.